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You Can Make a Happier Divorce Possible

There is no way around it. Divorce can be simply miserable—even if you were the one who asked for it. If you have children, they are also suffering, and from something that is not even their fault. While there is no getting around the pain of the situation, the way you approach this tough process can eventually make all the difference. Here are three of the ways you could get yourself through a divorce as peacefully as possible:

1) Remember that divorce can be the right decision. If a divorce was your choice, then remember that you chose this for a reason, that this could be a positive change. If the other spouse is the one who is leaving you, it is only natural to feel hurt and angry. But remember that these emotions are detrimental to you. You deserve to be with someone who loves you, to be in a healthy relationship. So divorce is the right step for you too, enabling you to move on to something better.

2) And honestly, you will probably have to fake it first. Act like you would if you were happy, until you actually find that you are. Stay away from the people who want to mope or to air grievances with you. Instead of focusing on the injustice or pain of a situation, discover the things that make you happy and pursue that instead.

3) Do not trap yourself in a hurtful narrative. Too many people tell themselves that they are losers with rotten luck or who have missed their chance at happiness. If you tell yourself this, well then it might just come true, but it does not have to be. This is your chance to write a better story, to tell yourself that you do have what it takes to find love and happiness. This is one of the few things you can control—your perception. And often, what you tell yourself becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy. No matter how your soon-to-be former spouse handles the situation, you can persevere, knowing things will improve while you strive for happiness, instead of letting yourself sink into unproductive, dejected behavior.

Even though there is no sugar-coating the pain of a divorce, you can forge a better, healthier chapter in your life because of it. When divorce is the way you need to go, contact Hopper, Hopper & Mulligan, PLLC, PLLC. Our team of legal professionals has the skill and dedication you deserve to have on your side. We are equipped and ready to help you get a fair result from your divorce, which can set you up for the next steps in life. Learn how a Raleigh divorce lawyer from our firm can help you when you call us today!

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